I just learned that my bestie’s boyfriend won’t get vaccinated. Of course he is deaf to reason. “It’s an identity thing,” she opines. She’s vaccinated. “It won’t hurt me.” I understand how the relationship works, how when she met him & they started spending time together he turned out to be a great coparent. She was recently widowed with a 14 year old daughter. The daughter is now an adult and vaccinated also.