I mean if you have to pop a pill maybe it isn't such a good idea. If it was your body and mind would be up to it.

My wife and I never fuck any more and we are both good with it. I've asked her on occasion, "you know if you want it I could get the right drugs" but she's like "no, no." When we were entering this phase of our life together she worried that I wouldn't want to cuddle any more. But I will always need that. We often fall asleep in each other's arms.

I'm afraid if I did get a drug-induced hard on and used it my dick would burn like a mother afterwards.